11 Things You Should Know About Piercings

Despite what your grandma thinks of kids these days, piercing is nothing new.

Bedazzling the ears dates back thousands of years. Testament to the fact that everything old is new again: Dangling, chandelier-style earrings were particularly popular in the 18th century, the Chicago Tribune reported. One of the oldest mummies ever discovered, Otzi the Iceman, had stretched ear lobes, according to the BBC. Nose piercing is mentioned in the Bible.

But just because it’s been around for ages and has only grown more and more socially acceptable in the Western world, doesn’t mean we have all the answers. Whether you’re in the market for something shiny or still nursing your latest addition, whether you’re pierced as cultural tradition or as a unique form of self-expression, here are a few facts you might not have known about piercings.

1. Just 14 percent of people have piercings somewhere other than their ear lobes, according to a 2006 study co-authored by board-certified dermatologist Amy J. Derick, M.D.

And only 7 percent have a piercing somewhere other than their ear entirely, according to a 2012 Harris Interactive poll.

2. There is some form of complication in up to 35 percent of piercings.
A 1998 study is still frequently cited in estimates of ear piercing complications. The study found that 35 percent of nurses surveyed at a major Midwestern hospital who had ear piercings had reported some complication. Major complications were reported less than 1 percent of the time, and minor infection accounted for the majority of the issues. “You can get infection when you’re actually getting the piercing,” says Derick, who is also a clinical instructor of dermatology at Northwestern University, if the piercer doesn’t wear gloves or isn’t using clean instruments, “or later, in a piercing that’s already been done but didn’t heal well.”

3. You can be allergic to your piercing.
Jewelry containing nickel, cobalt or white gold can cause allergic reactions, according to the American Academy of Dermatology (AAD). “Nickel is a common allergen,” says Derick, and any reaction would usually go away shortly after removing the piercing, she says. Surgical-grade stainless steel, titanium or 14- or 18-karat gold shouldn’t cause problems, according to the AAD.

4. Don’t consider it a trial run.
If you find yourself in a piercing parlor with the cavalier attitude that, hey, you can always take your piercing out, Derick suggests you reconsider. Yes, she says, you can take the jewelry out, but healing flawlessly is a different story. Scarring, bumps, depressions or holes may remain even after you remove the piercing, she says. Not what you bargained for.

5. A piercing is technically trauma.
It’s a wound — and a little bit of swelling and redness is all part of the body’s natural healing response and doesn’t necessarily mean you’re infected, says jewelry designer and retailer Maria Tash, whose company Maria Tash Inc. provides piercing services at two New York City locations. “We see more redness due to harsh [cleaning] products” than from infection, she says.

The body works hard to heal all wounds, piercings or not, and doesn’t need much help from you other than keeping your jewelry clean. In some cases, the body will interpret a new piece of jewelry as a foreign body, like having a thorn stuck in your thumb. If it rejects the piercing, it’s essentially trying to “spit out” that thorn, says Derick.

6. There’s an art to it.

“There’s an art to piercing, to do it well,” says Tash, who recently trained Harrison Ford in preparation for his piercing of Jimmy Fallon’s ear. “The truth is, to do it well is a lot more complicated.” Yes, a sterile procedure is of utmost importance, but don’t forget jewelry is typically worn to improve appearances. Placement of a piercing requires more thought than a “let’s just throw a dart at it” kind of attitude, she says.

It’s also for this reason that Tash recommends not piercing an infant’s ears. Not only is he or she likely to squirm and cry, but the ear lobe is not yet fully developed, and what was once centered and flattering as a young child might look off as an adult.

7. Piercings in certain areas take longer to heal than others.
You’re not imagining it. The greater the blood flow to a certain area, the faster it will heal — and the less vulnerable it will be to infection, Dr. Joseph Adrian Tyndall, M.D., of Brooklyn Hospital Center told ABC News. Ear lobes, tongues and lips have some of the fastest healing times, says Tash, at four to six weeks, thanks to their high blood flow, or vascularity. Cartilage on the outer ear or nose takes longer to heal. That doesn’t mean a nose piercing will hurt for months on end, says Tash, just that it still requires careful cleaning during that time.

8. There is such a thing as over-cleaning.
Speaking of cleaning: The aim is to assist the body’s nature healing process, not derail it. Light cleaning twice a day will typically be sufficient, says Tash, with a very mild product. Sterile saline wound wash is the best bet, she says, which will irrigate a new piercing without causing reactions in people with sensitive skin, like iodine-based products used in the past sometimes did.

9. Ointment is out.
You’d put it on a cut, so why not put some antibiotic ointment on your new piercing? Turns out, this thinking is dated, says Tash. Ointment doesn’t rinse the piercing like a saline wash will, plus, dust or other irritants in the air might actually stick to that goo, finding their way into the piercing later, she says.

10. Only some states regulate the piercing industry.
There’s no federal regulation of the piercing industry, and some states don’t have any legislation on the books. Yes, confirms Tash, that means that just about anybody can open up a piercing parlor, so it falls on us as consumers to make good choices about our health and safety. Check reviews online, but be sure to

How millennials have normalized the ancient art of body piercing

Many ancient cultures practiced and cherished the arts of piercing, poking, dying and branding the skin, commonly known as body modification. With the growth of religions such as Christianity, Judaism and Islam and their stricter ethical structures, the practice of body art diminished in Western societies.

However, piercings are now a very common accessory, especially among American millennials.

As piercing and tattoo trends make their mark on the millennial generation, Traditional Tattoo in San Luis Obispo has become a popular spot for Cal Poly students seeking new body art. During promotions like their $20 Piercing Weekend, which took place Jan. 14-16, the studio does between 200 and 300 piercings a day.

“The number one piercing we do at Cal Poly is by far nipple piercings,” Traditional Tattoo piercer and tattoo artist Matt Southwood said. “I do so many nipple piercings a day, I can’t keep track. Almost all of them are girls. Right now, it’s really popular to show off nipples.”

By getting pierced, students are tapping into ancient adorning practices, Southwood said.

“I think generations are reclaiming cultural practices, whether they’re conscious of it or not,” Southwood said. “Maybe it’s built into the human DNA to want to adorn our bodies and skin.”

Southwood has been working in the piercing and tattoo industry for 16 years. He said that he has an undeniable personal connection with body art.

His own body art reflects that connection. He is covered in all-black indigenous-looking tattoos, with different shapes and patterns, evoking images from nature. A red-tailed hawk wraps around his neck and blends into the geometric designs running up his chin. Southwood said that patterns come to his mind and don’t go away until he makes them a part of himself.

Piercing trends

According to Southwood, body piercings became more commonplace in the 1980s as a result of the gay rights movement. Around the same time, Southwood said piercing culture became popular with people engaging in the erotic practices of bondage, domination, sadism and masochism (BDSM).

Up until the mid ‘90s, body piercings were an adornment of punk rock culture, Southwood said. Then, a tribal movement made piercing culture mainstream.

In 1993, Nomad Body Piercing was founded in San Francisco, in part by a man named Kristian White. According to Nomad’s website, it was the first body piercing studio in America that worked freehand, without the aid of clamps.

This means that piercers do not use tools such as forceps to support and stabilize the area being pierced.

“Kristian went all around the world staying with different tribes. He started bringing over organic jewelry, like plugs,” Southwood said. “He fell in love with indigenous cultures and their body art practices, and he made a business out of it.”

Plugs are short, circular pieces of jewelry commonly worn in larger-gauge ear piercings.

Visiting Nomad was Southwood’s introduction to the piercing world. Today, his piercing room replicates the rainforest-inspired decor of the Nomad studio.

Eliminating the “pierced person” stereotype

Southwood said there is no longer a certain type of person who gets piercings.

“The people that come here aren’t punk rockers with mohawks. All day long, it’s sorority girls and cheerleaders or an entire sports team,” Southwood said. “It’s everybody. It’s no longer an emo or gothic thing.”

Allison Teeter, a professional evaluator at Kansas State University, wrote her master’s thesis on the stigma associated with body art. Her report is called “Never Judge a Book by its Cover: a Sociological Examination of Body Art.”

“I had multiple piercings and tattoos in graduate school and I noticed a stigma associated with body modification,” Teeter said. “Despite the fact that I was extremely educated, I would be looked at differently by people. I was interested in why people were doing this.”

Based on her research, Teeter proposed nine analytical categories explaining why people get different forms of body art. Of the nine categories, Teeter said that five apply to piercings: to bond with others, to rebel, out of impulse, to develop their self-identity and to conform to current fashion trends.   

Although there remains a stigma toward body art, Teeter believes that since her youth in the early 2000s, people have become more accepting of the culture.

“I think that gender stereotypes, like women needing to look and be a certain way, were more conservative back then,” Teeter said. “Companies didn’t want to hire me because they felt they would lose customers by hiring someone that looked different. As (body modification) becomes more popular, mostly through pop-culture, it spreads like wildfire.”

A Sexy Little Secret: Why Piercing Newbies Should Pierce Their Nipples

Before you clutch your breasts in horror, think about it: Except for a handful grateful people, nobody will even know you have them.

About six months ago—and much to my mother’s horror when she reads this—I decided to get my nipples pierced. I was sitting in the car with my boyfriend debating whether or not to do it, and by “debating,” I mean me repeatedly asking, “Should I do it?” while he watched YouTube (he’s the strong, silent type). When we did finally go inside the piercing shop, I was shaking from anticipation.

I had always been curious about nipple piercings, but, like most sensible people, the thought of having a needle stabbed through my chikubis made me grab my breasts and gasp. In fact, while my piercer got her supplies ready, my hands were clasped over my breasts. Why? I don’t know. For whatever reason, someone mentions nipples being stabbed or ripped off, and everyone else starts gently fondling their booby hats, which is probably what many readers are doing right now.

I won’t go into the gory details because there aren’t any, but I will say that nipple piercings hurt. That’s a “duh” statement, but I’ve heard people say that they don’t. Maybe that’s true for the first nipple because of all the adrenaline pumping, but the second nipple piercing feels like a titty twister—except the nipple gets twisted off (okay, even I’m grasping my boobies after that line). But the few seconds of pain is definitely worth it.

Here’s what you need to know about getting your nipples pierced.

Find a Good Piercer and a Clean Shop


For any piercing, you should find a sanitary shop and a piercer who’s certified to pierce (their certification should be displayed somewhere in the store). If you walk into the shop and your initial reaction is, “I hope they don’t dismember my lifeless corpse in the back,” you should probably find a different store.

Before I went to get my piercings, I found a shop with good reviews, but then I also read these reviews to find out which piercer was the highest rated. I then went to the store when that particular piercer was working. The girl who pierced my nipples is now the only piercer who I’ll let pierce me or change my jewelry (she’s really awesome).

Maybe these statements are also “duh” statements, but a lot of people decide to get pierced on a whim or after drinking. For something as sensitive and intimate as your nipples, it’s better to find a reputable shop with a reputable piercer—not one who’s just interested in collecting your money with no regard for your safety. Chances are, that type of piercer will give you crooked piercings.

Better Than Navel or Ear Piercings 

I know, I know. Navel rings and ear piercings are cool, but for older girls a naval ring or an ear full of earrings can seem juvenile, and most guys probably aren’t interested in piercing their belly buttons.

Sure, a naval piercing can be hidden, but only until you’re on a company retreat at a beach somewhere, and you’re stuck in a one-piece or a swimsuit cover because you’re afraid of how “unprofessional” your piercing will look to your boss and co-workers. But nipple piercings can be your fun, dirty secret—one your boss doesn’t have to know about unless you’re sleeping with him. (Don’t sleep with your boss. You’re better than that.)

The best thing about nipple piercings is that no one will know you have them unless you’re whipping out your tatas all over town, or writing about them in an article and horrifying your entire family. They’re one of the few piercings that can truly be hidden.

Unlike ear or belly button piercings, nipple piercings require minimal care, they are pretty resistant to infection and they don’t hurt after a day or two. If your nipples are sore after a few days, you’ve probably jostled the jewelry, so start wearing a sports bra or a tight-fitting bra. I know some of you are thinking, “A sports bra?!” but the tighter your bra is, the better it’s going to feel (the tighter your clothes, the less likely it is that the jewelry will get jostled). Whatever you do, do not go braless. Going braless will guarantee your jewelry gets pulled, and yes, your nipples will bleed if that happens.

To put in perspective how resistant nipple piercings are to infections, I’ll admit that I knocked my jewelry around a lot, wore the same bra for days in a row and I was bad about touching them (they get a little itchy). Still, I never had any problems with infection. Contrast this to both my navel and ear piercings, which, regardless of how much I cleaned them, were constantly infected and sore.

After six months, I gave up on the navel ring and removed it. The same thing occurred with my helix piercing and also with my upper lobe piercing (but I was eventually able to save the upper lobe one). My industrial piercing, which I’ve had for around four or five months, still needs to be cleaned three to five times a day, whereas my nipples only needed about a month of cleaning one to two times a day. They’re a really low maintenance piercing and therefore a good choice for the piercing newbie.

Have Confidence in Your Breasts

I’ll speak candidly and admit that part of my decision to pierce my nipples was based on how my breasts look. A common myth about nipple piercings is that they’ll make your nipples permanently erect. Sure, they’ll be erect for a few months, but then they’ll go back to normal.

That being said, having jewelry shoved through your nips will make them stand out more, so if you’re a girl with inverted nipples, very small breasts or large areolas, nipple piercings may actually enhance the appearance of your bosom.

And even if your breasts don’t

The Kinkiest Piercings For Any Body

Piercings are all about getting something new and exciting, and for most pierced people, they’re a way to express our personalities. Let’s face it though – some piercings are just downright sexy.

With all the recent exposure and acceptance sexy piercings have had, with celebs like Amber Rose, Kylie and Kendall Jenner sporting their racey nipple blings, my FreshTrends people, it’s time to have “the talk”.

What Are The Sexiest Piercings?

The Dermal Piercing

These little gems can be placed on almost any flat surface of the body, so getting these put somewhere like your hips or chest can make this a very flirtatious option. There are so many cute, eye-catching dermals out there – opal dermals, as well as fun surgical steel shapes we have in stock, things like stars, broken hearts, and even a suggestive 69 symbol if you’re feeling shamelessly sexy.

Corset Piercings

They’re a little out there, I know, but there’s no denying the sex appeal of a corset piercing. Corset piercings, like the dermal, can be placed on almost any flat surface of the body – most people put them down their backs, but these days we’re seeing them more and more on hips.

Corset piercings are generally done with captive bead rings, and then laced with some satin ribbon once they’re healed (there’s nothing quite like tension to muck up the healing process on a fresh piercing). Keep it simple – these piercings are generally in tricky to reach spots, and you don’t want to over complicate it with jewelry that gets caught on everything.

Nipple Piercings

Like I said, nipple piercings have had a lot of attention lately with celebrities sporting them, and we can see why! If you’re looking to make it a bit steamier in the bedroom, maybe intensifying arousal, or just looking for a kinky change to boost your self-esteem, this piercing is a lot of fun.

With kinky designs like handcuffs, or cute jewelry that teases,  you’re going to have a lot of fun watching the reactions you get out of these piercings. It’s not all about who you let see them though – get a piercing because you love it, and enjoy all of the sexy new sensations that come with a nipple piercing.

It doesn’t have to be all sex appeal all the time with nipple piercings though – sweet and whimsical jewelry like dream-catchers, and badass pieces like some Love Bites are just a smattering of how you can style these piercings. Guys can keep it minimalist with some titanium barbells, or more elaborate with some studly tribal nipple shields.

Prince Albert Piercings

Rumor has it that this piercing can intensify pleasure for both parties if you’ve got the nerve. Getting a piercing on your pride and joy is a bold move, but if you have nerves of steel, well, you may very well reap the rewards.

This piercing can be a lot of fun, for both men and women, and man, talk about proving you have guts – Prince Albert piercings are not for the faint of heart, but they’re certainly bucket list worthy.

For this piercing, the captive bead ring, circular barbell, or bent barbell are the best options. You also need to make sure that you choose a high quality metal, since it’s in such a sensitive area – the last thing you want is a reaction. Gold is a great metal for this piercing, but titanium and surgical steel are great options if you’re on a budget.

For those sensitive to the initial stiffness (no pun intended) of the jewelry, BioPlast is a flexible jewelry that works with even the most sensitive body chemistries, and comes in some kinky colors – dare I say it – glow-in-the-dark is an option, fellas.

The Vch Piercing (Hood/Clit Piercing)

Last but not least, we can’t leave this one out – the infamous VCH – definitely a head-turner! Like the Prince Albert piercing, a clitoral hood piercing can be pleasurable for both parties, and let’s face it – what partner isn’t going to do a double take when they see what you’re sporting down there? This piercing is in a sensitive place, so a lot of wearers have reported some big bonuses to support this jewelry, including added sensation during intercourse – sounds good to me!

Like Prince Albert, this piercing goes south, so don’t skimp on cheap jewelry and damage your lady bits. Titanium is a great option, but if you can swing it, gold is by far one of the better metals and one of the purest, so you’re less likely to deal with things like infections and reactions.

If the thought of having a metal barbell down there makes you wiggle and twist in your seat a bit, you can also start out with something more flexible and comfortable like BioPlast, just talk to your piercer beforehand, as you may have to bring your own jewelry in.

Bent barbells, captive rings, and circular barbells are generally the recommended jewelry for a clitoral hood piercing, and there are tons of adorable options out there – diamond studded, ornate designs that take something already jaw-dropping, and invite your spectator to come in for a closer look ;).

Tongue Piercings

Oh baby – such a simple piercing, totally innocent, until your dirty mind remembers all of the wonderful things tongues do. Tongue piercings are so. Damn. Kinky. Any time you sport one, chances are the person that sees it is wanting to get to know you a little better.

You can get some really fun jewelry for tongue rings to play within the bedroom – vibrating ones and glow in the dark are pretty popular, but then there’s always the glimmer of diamonds behind your pearly whites that looks pretty sexy on its own.

Again we have a part of the body that’s prone to some unique biology here, so make sure you select high-end jewelry for the job, particularly after the initial piercing is done. From there, you can

Nipple Piercing FAQs and Why you should be aware of them

Why Do People Like Nipple Piercings?

Nipple piercings have become increasingly popular nowadays, so the first question people usually ask themselves is — why? Piercing your body parts is a unique experience, and it’s too painful to handle for some. But, while some people would never go near a body-piercing needle, others gladly go more than once.


So, why do people enjoy nipple piercings? There are multiple reasons for that. First of all, people like it for its aesthetic appeal. Some like how pierced nipples look in general, while others love how they protrude beneath clothes. People claim that having pierced nipples have made them more sensitive, so they get more pleasure from stimulating them. Plus, it’s not uncommon for inverted nipples to come out after they’ve been pierced. 


While reasons to like nipple piercings are plentiful, there is still more you should know about this practice.

Is Nipple Piercing Extremely Painful?

One of the most FAQs about nipple piercings is whether the pain is going to be extreme. The truth is that it really depends. The first thing it will depend on is your pain tolerance. Everyone’s pain tolerance levels are different, so you may not find piercing painful at all. This is the first thing you should think of when wondering if it would hurt you.


Nipples contain a lot of nerve endings and that’s why piercing them will always be painful to some extent. The good thing is that this pain is temporary and will pass before you even realize it. Still, some people want to be ready for what’s coming. The best way to prepare yourself is to give yourself a pep talk and talk to your professional body piercer of choice. They’ll tell you all you need to know, so you won’t have to worry about any surprises.

Are There Safekeeping Techniques for Nipple Piercings?

One of the nipple piercing facts everyone should know is that nipples start healing fast. However, it will take anywhere from 6 months to a year for them to fully heal. That means you should be cautious about how you handle your nipples, and you need to take care of them properly. 


So, if you dare pierce your nipples, there are a couple of cleaning and maintenance techniques you should know about. Your professional piercer will let you know what to do, but we want to summarize just in case. Here’s how to ensure your healing goes smoothly:


  • Clean your nipple piercing with warm water and a gentle soap once a day. The most important thing is to be very gentle because your nipples will be sensitive and painful.
  • It’s normal for nipples to get a bit crusty, and that’s why people choose to wash them with a saline solution. You can purchase sterile saline or make your own solution by putting a teaspoon of sea salt in a cup of warm water. Once it dissolves, transfer the solution into a small glass (shot glasses are good for this) and place it over your nipple. You can hold it for as long as you want.

How Do I Keep Myself Away From Infection?

Infections after body piercings are actually not as common as people think, and it’s the same with nipple piercings. Infections can happen for a myriad of reasons, many of which are within your control. Most of the time, people think they’re having an infection when they have an allergic reaction or a reaction to badly sized jewelry. These things are easily solvable by talking to your piercer. 


On the other hand, you can also have a yeast infection called nipple thrush. In this case, you’ll experience more severe symptoms like swelling, burning, and pain on the piercing site, among other things.


But how can you avoid triggering an infection? The first thing you need is to find a reputable piercer that works professionally and in a sterile environment. Then — and this is among the most important things — you need to stop touching your nipples


When you need to handle them for cleaning, ensure to always wash your hands first. Yes, not even your partner can play with your nipples for some time. Women need to wear comfortable bras like sports bras and bralettes. Do anything in your power to not touch your nipples, and you’ll be safe.

Would It Make My Nipples Sensitive to Pleasure?

The answer to this question is not so simple. Nerve endings are what makes all of your erogenous zones sensitive and pleasurable to touch. With that in mind, it would be logical to assume that piercing your nipples doesn’t make them more sensitive. However, some people report otherwise.


Nipple piercings make your nipples more noticeable. This alone can be a mental stimulant that makes you feel like your nipples are more sensitive. So, it really depends on how sensitive your nipples were before the piercings. On the other hand, many people report that their nipples have significantly increased sensitivity, making their sexy plays way more pleasurable.


So, how will you know which of these scenarios will apply to you? There’s only one way to find out — if you’re brave enough.

Do People Recommend Nipple Piercing?

To be fair, there are both positive and negative reviews of nipple piercing. That’s normal because everyone will have a different experience. While these reviews are subjective, they can help us figure out what nipple piercing is really like.


So, the actual answer to this is yes — and no. The only way you’ll know if this is the right decision for you is to think about why you want to do it. There are no wrong answers or reasons for you to want a nipple piercing. Maybe you want to adhere to a different aesthetic or just make your nipples more prominent. All reasons are valid. However, it’s good to find a reason that’s worth going through the nipple

BDSM Collars: Pick your style

BDSM community is known for kinky scenes and the use of sex toys. One of the most popular adult toy types is BDSM collars. These collars can mean many different things. They can indicate the type of relationship you are in, whether you are with someone, etc. 

But showing ownership or possession is just one of many roles a collar can have. Each material and type offers something new. It is up to you to decide which one suits your taste and style. 

Leather collar

Leather collars are probably the most common type you can find. For so many people, leather screams BDSM, and it seems like an obvious choice. Even if you don’t see the connection between the two, the material is excellent and will last you for a long time. 

The majority of people will opt for leather since it is comfortable. You can easily adjust it, and, let’s be honest, they look great. Leather is often used for the consideration and training collars, and it is often blue and red, respectively. But even if you don’t plan on wearing a collar with meaning, you can still find models with similar designs. 

Naturally, you can find different models only at LG shop or nearly any online sex store. You will be able to pick a type, locking mechanism, and any additional part the collar might have. 

Chainmail collars

The next one on the list is a chainmail collar. The design of these collars is a lot rougher, and they can be quite unforgiving based on the model. Naturally, this makes them perfect for power exchange play. Also, they are rather popular among the gay community. 

The size and design of the collar can vary based on the model. But, it is not rare to find ones that cover the entire neck. 

Furthermore, they often have a real padlock on the bottom, which is perfect for pet play. 

When it comes to the choice of materials, these collars are naturally made of metal. Usually, it’s aluminum since it is lighter than other metals. The primary focus here is on the looks, which means that you don’t need something heavy that will be uncomfortable to wear.  

Solid metal collars

This leads us to the next type — collars made of solid metals. Here, we can see materials like titanium, stainless steel, gold plated, etc. As you can probably guess, these collars will have brighter colors, and they are usually not painted. 

Usually, solid metals are used for designing eternity or permanent collars, which are similar to wedding rings. They are meant to serve as a sign of commitment and trust, so don’t take them lightly. Since these metals can be heavier, the collars are likely to be smaller, so the wearer can use them for as long as they want. 

They are popular in dominant-submissive subcultures, and they are a sign that a person wearing them is already in a serious, committed relationship. Of course, you can also find larger models that are designed for power play. They usually have a larger padlock on the bottom. Steel collars are an excellent choice of toy for bondage and keeping your sub in place. 

Bondage collars

While we are on the subject of bondage, you can find toys designed for this very purpose. Bondage collars can be made of any material, but the most common types are leather and metal. The idea behind them is simple. Namely, they should be sturdy, allow the dominant to use chains or ropes, and be secure. 

It is not rare to see a collar made of several different materials as well. The outer part can be made of leather or metal, while the inner one will have some sort of cushion to make it more comfortable. Those with a lock on them just give an extra layer of control for the couple since the dominant person will be the one with the key. 

Posture collars

Posture collars are often made from rigid, sturdy materials, and their goal is to keep the wearer in the same position or to force them to keep the posture. It is similar to toys you can find for predicament bondage. However, these tend to be a bit more comfortable. 

When it comes to the design, posture collars are often big enough to cover the entire neck or even more. This way, the wearer won’t be able to turn around, and they will have to stay in the position dictated by the collar. 

These collars are not for everyday use. The very nature of the toy is to correct posture, which means that it can damage the windpipe or start choking the wearer. The feeling of wearing the posture collar can be quite intense. 

Fashion collars

The final type of collar you can find is fashion collars. These models are a fashion statement, not a BDSM tool. You can find nearly any material you like, and they are similar today collars and chokers. 

You can wear them wherever you like, they aren’t as kinky or provocative as other models, and they can be quite fun. People go for this option if they are into role play. The most common materials here are lace, ribbons, leather, or nearly anything else. 

These models are designed to look pretty, which is one of the main reasons they are popular even outside of the BDSM community. That also means that there are plenty of options to choose from. You will undoubtedly find something exciting just for you. 

Keep in mind that fashion collars are not really a toy for hard BDSM. If you want something kinkier, you might want to consider one of the previous options.

How BDSM Unlocks Your Hidden Desires

People get amused looking at the title that what this BDSM means and is it some method to keep my partner thrilled? If that is what is running in your mind, well it is true. This article would lead you the way how BDSM helps in unlocking all your hidden desires and to thrill your partner in the best way possible. BDSM means Bondage, Dominating, Submission and Sadomasochism. It is simply kind of giving or getting maximum pleasures by locking or tying your partner during sexual intercourse. It would sound kind of weird for those who are involved in soft intercourses. However, there is a huge fan club for BDSM where they don’t just try out these but they actually live with these methods. They are aggressive and hard-core players on bed.

How BDSM can be done?

There are varieties of products available on the erotic stores that include handcuffs, leather jackets and ropes, toys to tickle your partner, etc. These toys can be used to tie your partner in a bed or a window. Once tied, he or she cannot move. You can enjoy all foreplays and tickling of your partner to ultimate orgasm up to your choices.

How did this culture start?

Generally, people would always want new ways of engaging their partner especially when it comes to sexual intercourses. That is the reason why people are suggested with more sexual intercourse positions through various websites. Evolution of more websites has been started lately to satisfy these people who wanted to try out new positions and methods to keep themselves and partners happy and satisfied.

While this thought has been prevailing among individuals, a new way of exploring the joy had been introduced lately which is nothing but this BDSM. Imagine you tying up your partner undressed and eyes closed. Use some ice cubes all over her body which would tickle every sense of hers and that would lead to great sexual experience for your and her. Most men fail in triggering her female partners which end up in monotonous sex. This has just started as a way for erotic sex life in a soft way.

With more and more advancements, this culture has turned out to be more aggressive. There are cages, locks for nipples, penis, vagina, etc which would not just hurt but increase the chance of getting maximum orgasm. For outsiders, these may look barbaric however it would be cool and happening only when you start doing it once.

Types of BDSM

Bondage could be done through any of the properties like ropes, dresses, etc. Bondage explains that out of two, one partner would become static without movement and other one is free to do anything with the one tie up. This is where the actual fun is. Therefore this results in two races one is submissive (which is the one tied up) and the other one is dominant (the one who is free). This dominance and submission could be of two types when male tries to be dominant while the female is submissive and male tries to be submissive while the female tries to be dominant. Generally, the one who is submissive will be undressed while the one who is dominant will be dressed. It is like the one who is undressed is required to beg the mercy of the dominant to leave out of sexual intercourse. The whole theme of this BDSM is such a way that everybody needs to ensure maximum pleasure. This was originally framed for erotic male and female partners.

However, recent times Lesbian and Gay community also wanted to explore these and they are the ones who are actually enjoying BDSM recently.

Psychological benefits

Though people from outside BDSM feel these are barbaric, top psychologist feels that this BDSM is more beneficial for its players emotionally. When a person is shy and not willing to explore new methods of sexual intercourse, this BDSM could be helpful for him/her to know about their own desires and help in breaking their emotional boundary. Same way, BDSM helps in lowering cortisol level. Cortisol is the actual hormone produced whenever you are stressed up on something. Psychologists give more medications to lower this cortisol level. But BDSM does it with so much ease that after every session that ends with maximum orgasm, it results in ultimate reduction in cortisol level. BDSM also helps people to feel closeness sexually and enhances the sexual arousal.


Outsiders feel that this method is kind of cruel and it puts people under pain. However BDSM individuals explain that no pleasure without pain and with this little pain they get more pleasure which is what they expected. Imagine a girl has been tied hands up in the air undressed and her partner uses his finger tips to tickle her. She would then be aroused to the maximum. Additionally, he can very well use any of the erotic devices that could help her getting the maximum orgasm. It is as simple as that, BDSM people just need more space to explore their partners for the maximum sexual intercourse.

Conclusion To conclude it in a better way, nobody can judge the action of others especially when it comes to their personal. If you are looking for ways to keep your partner happy, be submissive and let her enjoy every part of your body the way she wanted. This way you can even motivate your partner to get involved in sexual intercourse. Mostly with aging, the maximum pleasure cannot be obtained due to loss of interest and unsupported health. This can be broken if you could try any of these methods where you can even relive your early life and feel young always. Many scientists proved that those who are active in sex would live younger and self-conscious which is good in many ways. If you are a person who is looking for a change in your sex life, then make sure you try these BDSM ways with your partner to

Why should you buy Sex Toys

Masturbators, which are based on the female genital, exist in many versions. Kanal vaginas, which are affectionately also called pocket vagina, are practically on the way and at first glance remind of a flashlight. The most popular provider is Flesh light, which is why the name of the manufacturer is often used synonymously with this type of masturbator. With their narrow channel, they are specifically used for potency training. The aim is to delay the climax as much as possible.

If you need a little more to tackle, you can do better with larger vagina masturbators. Here the female body served as a role model. Some models are equipped with anal and vaginal opening and breasts. To create a realistic experience, Cyber skin material is used in these examples. Skin-like TPE or TPR (thermoplastic elastomers) consists of oils and rubber. So it gets silicone-like properties, but feels even softer. For more pleasure should you buy a fleshlight? Obviously you can to enjoy unlimited thrill.

And even if she is often ridiculed or rather bought as a gag gift – the good old rubber doll has long not been outdated. Details such as hair, different skin colors and a beautifully designed face still make her a loyal erotic companion.

Hygiene in focus

The most powerful battery and the most unusual designs do not help with poor hygiene. Cleaning after each use is an absolute prerequisite. This not only protects against odors and deposits, but much more seriously against germs and bacteria. Silicone accounts can be safely cleaned with warm water and a little commercial soap. Under no circumstances should silicone come in contact with oils and greases, otherwise the material will become porous. You should also refrain from using silicone-containing lubricants. Plastic toys are much less demanding in terms of cleaning. At regular intervals, the joy dispenser should be cleaned with a Toy cleaner. If you do not want to risk anything in terms of hygiene, opt for glass or metal toys.

Erectile dysfunction is something about 50% of men over 40 have problems with. No matter if you call it erectile dysfunction, erectile dysfunction, potency problems or even impotence, it is a problem that affects many men every day.

Some experience erectile dysfunction one or more times, but for others the fact of having erection problems has become a permanent problem. No matter which strain you belong to, here in this guide you will find a remedy.

Why do I have erection problems?

There are many different reasons why men suffer from erection problems. In about 80% of cases, erectile dysfunction is caused by a physical cause and only 20% by a psychological one. Some of the physical causes of erectile dysfunction may be atherosclerosis, diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, low sensitivity or side effects of various medications. There are many more physical causes, but the ones mentioned here are among the most common. The psychological causes can be depression, stress, anxiety and low self-esteem. Note: No matter what the cause of your case, it is important that you talk to your doctor about it. One thing that will be advised is practice of chastity which aren’t scams in order for you to prevent watching porn, knowing that you can’t jerk off.

How can you prevent erectile dysfunction yourself?

First and foremost, as mentioned earlier, it is very important that you see your doctor if you have erectile dysfunction. Precisely because physical causes are most often the cause, it is important to educate as soon as possible. If you are under treatment, there are a variety of helpful sex toys that can help you get rid of your erectile dysfunction. We would like to discuss these products in more detail below.

The Penis Vibrators for men with erectile dysfunction

The Hot Octopus Pulse is a penis vibrator for men bringing joy that you can use alone or while having sex with your partner. You can even use it even before you have an erection. If you use it alone, with erection: Put the penis vibrator over your glands and be stimulated by its pulse technology, such as a masturbation cup or a conventional hand job.

Without erection: Put the vibrator over your glands and let unique pulse technology bring some life into your best piece. The pulsating vibrations help you to get an erection and even a stronger ejaculation.

Together with your partner: The Hot Octopus Pulse is not just a penis vibrator that you only use when playing with yourself. You can also use it easily if you have erection problems and are planning to have sex with your partner right away. The pulsating vibrations in the vibrator can be felt both inside and out. So he’s perfect for the missionary position or sitting on you.

Sex toys that can strengthen your erection

Beyond the technologically advanced hot octopus Pulse Penis Vibrator, there are many other sex toys that can help you with erectile dysfunction and strengthen your erection. Some of the most recommended are, for example, penis rings, penis pumps or hollow strap-ons, also called penis extensions.

Penis Rings

Cock rings are excellent aids when it comes to strengthening the erection. Cock rings work by keeping the blood where it needs to be. At the same time they ensure that the penis stays hard longer. There are many different penis rings in the market. For beginners in dealing with penis rings we recommend the Colt 3 ring set, which consists of 3 pleasant cock rings in different sizes. So you can find out what size you find the best – and which fits best to your penis.

If you want to stimulate your partner while wearing the cock ring, we can recommend you a good penis ring with vibrator. For example, try out the cock ring with vibrator to getting healthy. It is easy to handle and made of comfortable silicone. However, penis rings with a vibrator are not ideal if you have